What is same- attraction like? is it black and white like it is for us heteros?

ok, I think i can answer the question... my dad was gay. Not bi-- gay. He had had with my mom a total of two times, hence my older sis n me. There was 10 years between,um, times, um, and that was because he was drunk both times! Yes my mom seduced him! Some ppl,discover they were gay/bi and leave. Others hide behind marriage, like my dad. In the 50's one didnt get a job,car, bank loan, rent a house, if they were " queer". BTW, queer was the tern back in the day, NOT gay. Back in the 50's gay meant happy, not ! Anyway, attraction is a funny thing. I know several gay ppl,and they say varied things, like, " i was born this way", "Been gay all my life, just like u are straight," " Didn't realize i was gay till I met so-n-so," ect. My ?? Paraplegics. I have had one same- experience with a friend and it wasn't for me!! that said, I hope I answered your question. Yes I was attracted to her. and attraction can be mental,physical,emotional, ect. it can be on many levels. Wiccan's tend to believe that the soul is genderless, and ageless. That is why they ( pagans and Wiccans) tend to be more accepting of bi-/uals moreso than regular society. Oh, and what kev said is also true.